I had this anonymous comment on my previous post ...
"You know, a calm and honest (not degrading and offensive)conversation could solve problems like these."
Ohhh I wish it work that way in our realationship. Seriously you have no idea how many nights I have prayed for a simple fix. Conversations like that don't happen. Even after 3 years of marriage councling, prozac, and almost a divorce.... that aspect of our relationship has always been a struggled. It is much better don't get me wrong but sitting down and talking is not how we work. We fight, we yell, we get over it. We love each other to death and respect when oneof us needs time to cool off and that is it. I guess there is an occasional apology also but I have learned to not expect too much when it is something small like this was. I guess it is more funny to us then it is serious!
I also would appriciate anonymous commenters to put there name down. It drives me nuts to not know who is writing there opinion. thanks :)
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I dont like anonymous comments either- once I acidentally did not fill out my info and it made me anony on someones blog- i went back and deleted my post and started over. :O)
I hope you two are doing better now- I stalk your blog lately because I love your work!
I know how it is to fight and yell- we do it too- i just figure it is passion- if we did not love each other so much we would not care to fight so hard!
I would also love to know if you are open to photographing my family sometime this summer?
we are the same way---well i am---he listens(ignores) and i yell. LOL! and i say, milk it baby!
What a lovely way to look back at your life when you are older - reminiscing about all of the "good times"... oh and teaching your children how to resolve arguments. Sarcasm, sorry.
If you post your blog in a forum open to the world, then you are open to the worlds harsh opinions. You do do really good work though. And your kids are very beautiful.
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