More thoughts...

One more thing that Blaine and talked about...

I want everyone reading this to grab a peace of paper and do it with me! Seriously !

Ok Imagine that you've died and that you are at your own funeral. You get to pick the four speakers.

1st Someone from Church

2nd Friend

3rd Family Member

4th Co-worker

...Now write down what you would want them to say.... heres mine...

Church Wyone (she was in the YW pres. with me)

Friend Brookie

Family My Mom

Co-worker Vana

I would want Wyone to say...That I was dedicated to the girls. That although I have struggled in the past I taught the girls so much about life. About the Basic princables of the gospel. That I love the lord, and that you could feel my spirit when I taught.

Brookie...That I was always there. That I could make her laught about stupid things, that I was a dependable friend. That I always understood & cared. That I was compasionate, understanding, & forgiving. That I loved Life and lived it to it's fullest. That I loved everyone that I met. That I looked for good in everyone. That I was trustworthy. That I tried to make everyone around me feel good. That I was talented in alot of things.

Mom...That I was the one there for everyone. That I held the family together. That I was a good mother to my own children. That I loved my family. That I was dedicated to Justin and my family. That I loved them more then my own life. That I was an example. That I was patient and kind to my siblings. That I was talented, that I was always striving to improve. That I was the one to talk about problems with cause I was always understanding.

Vana...That I didn't like working at Mcd's. That I wanted to be home with Kase. But that I was a hard worker. That I was honest. That I treated others with respect and understanding. That I was a good friend, easy to talk to. That I was there when you needed me & That I was easy to talk to .

Now take what you have written down and save it because this is your blue print for life. These are things that are important to you. THIS is where you can judge yourself on how your doing. Dont think about so so and so down the street all "perfect" and whatever, How are you doing on what is important to you? Make since?

What was so intersting for me was that I never once mentioned

"that I always kept my house clean, "that I was sucessfull" or anything like that.

What is important to me was my realtionships with others.

How I treat other people.

That has caused me to step back and think about how I do treat other people. How am I doing?????????